Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him. Proverbs 26:12

When I read this scripture and think about it in my own life. It’s like a sword to the Hearst I’m so many ways. Truly being wise is so easy yet, yet being a fool is even easier than being wise.

Isn’t it amazing how that works. It’s easier to be bad than it is to be good. It’s easier to make excuses of why we can’t do certain things in our life. Especially the things that we are expected to do. Such as daily chores, work, routines etc. it’s easier to procrastinate than it is to do what we are to do.

Now if you think of just the opposite of know that there is a purpose for your life, you know it’s out there, you know it’s waiting and still you procrastinate. Everything you ever dreamed possible us sitting at your feet waiting.

So then would that make you a bigger fool? No! It doesn’t just means you have to continue to gain more knowledge and understanding of what you are to do. The will, the passion, the love for people and of course spreading the word of your Father who sits in Heaven. Quit being lazy.

As the door turns on its hinges, so does a sluggard in his bed. Proverbs 26:14

(Sluggard means lazy)

In a person with the 9 to 5 job. The thought of the world is that if you work your job than you are not considered a lazy person. A person that works any job is not considered lazy because they are working no matter the time. However, the person that works and doesn’t do chores, cleaning, errands…. the house is a mess the lawn is not mowed etc. I think you know what I mean.

The sluggard buried his hands in the dish, it wears him out to bring it to his mouth. Proverbs 26:15

That person is considered to be lazy because those things are not done. I’m the mind of the person that’s not being lazy because they work a job.

The sluggard is wiser in his own eyes than seven men who can answer sensibly. Proverbs 26:16

Have ever been told by other family members your lazy. Rather you have a job, or no job or what ever your case may be. It’s lazy if you don’t go an extra mile in everything that you do.

With that said the proverb above is ment to look at being Lazy in a different aspect and that is that we are made for so much more. More than we can ever imagine. More than the 9 to 5 job more than the “Normal” life you are living right now.

What’s normal? Personally I don’t think people should be called Normal anymore. That word is deadly to society and the energy that we all are putting out there. We should call all people extraordinary people to kill the Normal word. The energy of extraordinary will put a smile on peoples faces And better energy put into society then maybe just maybe we can change or alter the energy for people who just think they are normal. The new Normal is extraordinary normal.

Today use these Proverbs in your own life. I promise it changes the way you think. It’s a hard reality however if you can get a nudge from GOD to make you take a look at your thinking and ultimately your character and who you are why not. Remember your not Normal any more your extraordinary normal.

I love reading Proverbs every morning. I’ve been thinking about my work ethnic lately really hard. I’m sure some person can relate. I’ll be looking for work behind the counter where I work. I can’t find anything to do. So then some one else will come behind the counter and they have like 5 to 6 cartoons of cigarettes to stock and just busy all the time. I think to myself what the… why? I just stocked those.

Point being is it’s the whole mindset of how we think about work, and or how we perform at work or something that your doing personally of really in anything that you do. So for me this morning reading what I wrote for proverbs today makes me take a look at the thought process of how my work ethic is. That is what proverbs does for me every morning. It gives me a visual of how my day is going to be. What things I need to take personal action to. I don’t want to be considered lazy by GOD let alone my other co workers. So that paints the picture today that I need to go the extra mile. Double check the cigarettes to make sure they are stocked, pull down each one if that’s what it takes to make sure it’s right.

Clean more, organize. Most importantly there is no time for day dreaming. So… if these Proverbs can help you change your thinking or give you a different perspective of your thinking in this arena. Great! That Rocks.

Every morning it’s good to do just this. It retrains your thinking to be one minded with GOD because it changes your character to be like his. That is what Proverbs has done for me for the last Five Years.

Have a great day today.

Much love my friends always.♥️❤️♥️🙏❤️

Melissa Giles

Again I saw all the oppressions that are done under the sun. And behold, the tears of the oppressed, and they had no one to comfort them! On the side of their oppressors there was power, and there was no one to comfort them. Ecclesiastes 4:1

Being alone is never easy. Not for the rich nor for the poor. Not for the poor person in Spirit not the rich person in Spirit.

Do you think the person who is more Rich in Spirit is less lonely then the person who is poor in Spirit? Honestly after reading the above verse and if you continue to read the 4th chapter it talks more about it.

The point is that this is another reason of faith because truly it’s really considered all meaningless because of faith.

And I thought the dead who are already dead are more fortunate than the living who is still alive. Ecclesiastes 4:2

This to is meaningless however so true. How many times in your life have you felt so lonely you just wanted to die. Why would there be any reason to be on this planet with no one to spend it with.

I used to think this way. I used to be that person that wallowed if I wasn’t with someone for sure. It was one relationship after another.

Then I met some realistic people that taught me that it’s ok to be alone and really get to know who you are. Like YOU! In personal development and reading the Bible and of course my number one fan is GOD taught me just that. He taught me who I was made to be as well as to love myself for who I am. That was the beginning of this journey.

I think about the faith and how long this journey has been of so many things. For years I thought that yes it is better to be dead than alive.

As GOD was showing me more about gratitude and faith. To trust, to learn and understand the knowledge of the being the way the mind works when you are connected with GOD.

This is not easy. It gets easier, and what makes it easier is his love for you and I. Then there is the love that brings two people together.

It’s the state of mind that is connected to one source, one mind if you will. It’s a state of being that sends clear messages from both to the universe that comes back and connects the 2 minds together.

And though a man prevail against one who is always alone, two will withstand him-a threefold cord is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12

Now in this sense GOD is using this as what connects the 2 minds to one. In which is the universe. That’s the unity of the of the souls. It’s the silver cord that connects to heaven.

The silver cord is our souls. The Lumination in the spiritually rich man seems down they are still spiritually rich, and can lift the other up.

Back in 2015, I had this vision of this blog. I could not for the life of me figure out what the triple braided cord was. I master mind with a couple people and all I got from them was wow that’s deep Melissa. I didn’t get the answer.

There is still lots to write about this because it also goes into the thought process of the mind of flesh and the mind of spirit. That too can be the both the silver cord and the triple braided cord.

Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone. Ecclesiastes 4:11

This to is all meaningless it’s like chasing the wind. Because it’s all about faith.

I love you father in Heaven for all you do to me for me and with me. Thank you for everything to everybody that is in my life. As I continue to wait patiently with a smile and gratitude I will continue to have faith. Thank you.

My friends much Love. Have faith

Melissa Giles

Unequal weights and unequal measures are both alike an abomination to the Lord. Proverbs 20:10

Dang it! I started this blog not really knowing where it was going. The proverb above stuck out like a sore thumb. I didn’t know why.

I’m sitting outside saying GOD why can’t I stop smoking and honestly like I really don’t do this to often because just like with everyone else. It’s like he’s done everything for me to make things better for me and it’s me that’s not doing it. So I feel really bad when I talk to him about stopping certain things because there is no reason for me to do them. It’s strictly free will. I know the benefits and promises that are to come when I make that decision to just stop!

Dang! I know longer beg or pray for things like that. Now, as I’m talking to GOD outside. He says go write about it. I say ok come in and pull up that Proverb! 🤦‍♀️ to write about not smoking.

Here is what it means to me. Smh it’s so stupid! On my part of course. Knowing the GOD that I know and his plan for me.

Unequal weights meaning doing things I’m not suppose to do knowing that I’m not to do them and unequal measures sums up what I do. It’s me. It’s saying I’m going to drop and then not stopping. It does not make GOD happy with me at all. I can’t complain about anything because it’s my decisions that leave me where I’m at.

Dang! 🤦‍♀️ his reality makes me feel really bad. I even try arguing him with him at times. Like why do I have to stop smoking??? And if I’m so holy why don’t I live like the pope! Like protection wise. That sounded really bad. Then he says you are protected what are you talking about?! 🤦‍♀️ OK. Thank you father for all you do to me for me and with me! Please forgive me of all my sins.

Just thought I’d share.

Much love my friends!

Melissa Giles

What then shall we say? That the law is sin? By no means! Yet if we had the law, I would not had known sin. For I would not have known what it is to convet if the law had said, “Do not convet.” Romans 7:7

You shall not be jealous of one another. The gift given to someone else is not the gift that was given to you. Does the gift given to the person you are jealous of better than the gift that you were given? By no means! Yours is different not greater or less than not the other way around.

The beauty of the personal relationship that we have with GOD. Yeah fool! With GOD! Yeah wise man! With GOD!

I can’t express the meaning more of a fool or a wise man?!?!? Who is who?

Passion, wealth, strength, in what?

Wealth of houses, vineyards, words, negative power in which is thought of a wise man? What is it to you?

More importantly what is it to GOD? Who or what has the power? You may think you do in reality who is this land of Love? Wait power and love do they mix? Wait go a little bit deeper…..

Does the wise and the fool mix?

Then I said in my heart, “What happens to the fool will happen to me also. Why then have I been so very wise? And I said this on my heart that this to us all vanity. Ecclesiastes 2:15

Truly a hard reality! Vanity! Meaningless?

So I hated life, because what is done under the sun was grievous to me, for all is vanity and striving after the wind. Ecclesiastes 16:15

For “being” a “Wise” man or a “Fool”?

Life is like the wind which way is it truly going to go! Frustrating? All the complications of thought! Geez! What the what. Why? Why me?!?

For of the wise as of the fool there is no remembrance, seeing that in the days to come all will have been long forgotten. How the Wise dies just like the fool. Ecclesiastes 2:16

See the only thing we have in common is we all die! Why not eat and drink and just be happy! Reward each other with laughter and joy, encourage one another to do and be better. To love instead of not love.

Will then, will you be wise or a fool? What would you call it?

All judgement, what would you say to your fellow neighbor? You did wrong, you did this you did that, complaining about everything under the sun except, accepting the love of the wise and the fool. For who can judge to be either? Only the one who sits higher than all of us rather than the wise or the fool!

It’s all GOD. Much love my friends.

What about drinking?

For a prostitute is a deep; an adulteress is a narrow well. Proverbs 23:27

Is a prostitute any worse than an adulteress? Or the difference between the guttonier or the drunkard?

Hmm makes you wonder.

Who has woe? Who as sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaining? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of the eyes? Proverbs 23:29

Is it the wise or the fool? Is it the drunkard or meat eater? Is it the prostitute or the adulteress?

Those who tarry long over wine; those who go to try mixed wine. Do not look at wine when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup and goes down smoothly. Proverbs 23:31

Shall I start drinking wine the drunkard would say to the man drinking wine thing they are wise. Truly both are fools.

In the end it bites like a serpent and stings like an adder. Your eyes will see strange things and your heart utter perverse things. Proverbs 23:32-33

Rather it be in the early day or in the latter days it soon will hit like a rod of lightening in some way shape or form.

I know that wine for me was Vodka. It at times hit me as a prostitute, adulteress a glottoniare a drunkard someone completely in non control of everything around me. It made me see things that were not true. It hit me like that rod of lightening that was so hard hitting I didn’t know what happened the night before. Did it happen suddenly? Absolutely not! It snuck up like a serpent on a rock and not me in the ass many many times. Without seeing or feeling anything.

You will be like one who lies down in the sea, like the one who lies on top of a mast. Proverbs 24:34

A mast of self destruction!

They struck me, “You will say,”but I was not hurt; they beat me, but I did but feel it. When shall I awake? I must have another drink. Proverbs 23:35

That dang wall jumped in front of me causing that black eye, my arm is broke because the sidewalk was uneven. The chair had a broken leg and I did not see it.

That “thing” was there in front of me I did not see it. That person struck me when I was drinking and did not feel it.

I have the shakes I just got get another drink. All in one. Rather it be a thing or person it’s all in one.

SELf DESTRUCTION, of the fool saying they are wise.

Much love my friends.

Melissa Giles

Do you use your ear to hear?

Apply your heart to instruction and your ear to words of knowledge. Proverbs 23:12

Honestly I think the ear is the problem. However, the knowledge is so awesome, understanding is even better….. it’s the damn ear.

It says in Matthew what good would your ear be if it was attached to your nose or your nose attached to your eye or a leg an arm or an arm a leg. What does each part mean?

Does the deaf actually hear? And if your not truly deaf are you really using the ear to hear?

My inmost being will exult when your lips speak what is right.

This is the talk that we tell ourselves You can’t, you won’t of what you speak. The inmost being that wants craved the innermost of life. Which is you. So what is right…. only the word of GOD when we use the ear to hear.

Hear, my son, and be wise, and direct your heart your heart in the way. Proverbs 23:19

Be not among drunkards or among gluttonous eaters of meat, for the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty, and slumber will clothe them in rags. Proverbs 23:20-21

Drunkard glutton eater! What does that mean? Someone who over indulges in drinking and/or eating. Yup. To most dang it! Is this me could I be both?

What really would be the talk? Addiction?

Should this blog be about eating or drinking or both?

This actually took a little bit more of a turn than I was intended. Key word I, You, who is probably wondering what really is being spoken here.

You shall not make yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is of heaven above or in the earth beneath, or that is in the water below the earth. Exodus 20:2

In which this is the 2nd commandment of the 10 Commandments. How ironic that this is about addiction of every kind. The worst being of food or of drinking or of drinking and of food. Truly which comes first?

The point is that is all based on Faith truly. Everything is based on hearing the words and the commandments of who sits above us in which is Love, The Father In Heaven, his son Jesus Christ.

The ear has a meaning it is to hear the knowledge gain the understanding and use it to apply it to your life.

Much Love My Friends. Feel free to comment below your thoughts questions and concerns. Also use your ear that is attached to you your head for the purpose of the ear.

Melissa Giles

A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains forever. Ecclesiastes 1:4

Do you think that this is a choice? No choice. People come and people go right. We are all born and we all die. So then the question above wouldn’t make sense. Right? Right!

There is no remembrance of former thing, not will there be any remembrance of later things yet to be among those who come after. Ecclesiastes 1:11

This is true? No, not really. There are many people who are remembered, and why they are remembered. Right? Yup!

And I applied my heart to seek and to search out by Wisdom all that is done under heaven. It is an unhappy business that GOD has given to the children of man to be busy with. Ecclesiastes 1:13

It is not GOD who leaves us. It is Us that leave him. He did not make this an unhappy place for ya. It is us that choose to be unhappy. The realization of this passage really has set in.

GOD is there for both you and I daily. I feel like it is the teachings of the word is what we do not listen to.

In the circumstance that is here in the presence time is that Faith yes. It is the right time. For there is no other time to wait. If you are unhappy it is a choice to be that way. To be grateful is another. So, again there is no unhappy business in this world unless it’s you.

The only thing new on this planet you. It’s who you are and who you are becoming. It’s what you present yourself to be. It’s what holds in your heart and in your mind.

The only solution to being whole in self is Be in one mind with the father in Heaven. It’s a state of being. It’s a higher frequency of consciousness. It’s amazing when reached.

Faith is the master of life. Everything under the sun is completely meaningless, which is why there is YOU and FAITH.

Much Love

Melissa Giles